Please and Thank You

“Rejoice always, pray continually, give thanks in all circumstances;

for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.” 

1 Thessalonians 5:16-18

Thanksgiving is my favorite holiday of the year. I pull out all of my tried-and-true recipes handed down to me from my mom, grandmother, and even great-grandmother, hoping they will gratify the palate of those around my table today as well as in future generations. As I mix the ingredients for the pies, stuffing, and other traditional dishes, I cannot help but reminisce about the people in my life who have blessed me, not only with their food, but with their wisdom, guidance, and support. They hold a special place in my heart and I am most grateful to them, as I am keenly aware I am the product of their gifts and sacrifices.

From an early age, we teach our children to develop good manners -- to say “please” and “thank you” – as an act of kindness. Our hope is that these words, initially recited by rote, will eventually portend true meaning and sincerity. Today, when very few of us want for anything, it is sometimes difficult to appreciate or even recognize goodwill that is extended to us by others. We expect exemplary service from the receptionist in the doctor’s office, the cashier at the grocery store, the department store sales clerk, and our children’s teachers, because, after all, that is their job. But each of them is working hard to make a living -- to put food on the table and provide for their children -- and each of them, most likely, has another story. Perhaps a spouse has lost their job, they are caring for an elderly parent, or they are dealing with a health issue. In our rush to get through our day, we forget to look into their eyes and see another human being, who just may need a smile or word of encouragement because they are sad or they are struggling. We do not live in a bubble and we rely on countless people every day; some in very small ways, but important nonetheless. If we try to be more intentional in ensuring our “pleases” and thank yous” are meaningful, heartfelt, and sincere, and we offer a smile, we may just bring light to their day.

This year, as we gather around the Thanksgiving table and share with one another WHAT we are thankful for, consider adding WHO you are thankful for, and why. My list of WHOs includes the St. Michael’s community -- our priests, parishioners, parents, teachers and staff, and students -- you have given so much of your time, talent, and treasure in support of this most significant mission -- and I thank you. I wish each of you a wonderful Thanksgiving filled with much joy and happiness as you reflect on memories from the past, embrace the goodness of those who fill you in the present, and look forward to the possibilities in the future.

Deo Gratias, Kathy